โ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ง ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐'๐ฌ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญโ
โฆ.I said that to a client today
And I realized what a profound truth it is. I mean, the reality of it just kind of hit me.
Thereโs a paradox hereโฆ
๐๐ง ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ง๐:
Couples can experience greater depths of intimacy and connection. In fact, I just love helping them set a new bar of passion and fulfillment. This is the joy of my work, and within the calling and purpose of my life.
๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ก๐๐ง๐:
Along the path of going from disconnected and bored to passionate and fulfilled is mastering the art of disappointment.
๐๐๐๐จ ๐ข๐๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐จ:
1. Growing the muscle of coping with being disappointed (๐ฃ๐บ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ)
2. Growing the muscle of being okay with disappointing (๐ต๐ฐ๐ธ๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ)
Both of these are hard, and require practice and repetition.
But one thing Iโve come to realizeโฆ.
The healthiest couples are very strong in this, and the devitalized couples are very weak in it.
That said, this alone, doesn't create passion and fulfillment. Because itโs one thing to have a strong โdisappointment muscleโ. ๐ฎโ๐จ
Itโs quite another thing to master the โART of disappointmentโ. ๐ฅ